Sunday, April 14, 2013

"Nothing worth having was ever acheived without effort" -I don't rembmer who that is from.
But it's true.  For everyone.

I remember reading an excerpt from one of the books about Michael Jordan and his journey to multiple championships.  It was him talking about a chat he had with Phil Jackson about what MJ wanted to acheive.  He was still younger.  Not deep into his career.  But not a rookie, either.  His desire?  He wanted to be great.  He wanted to be a lengend.  I can't quote exactly what I read, but it can be compared to this:  "I expected to be great because I was already great.  But the level I wanted, I wasn't there yet.  I expected it for so long because we'd already had such great successes. But when I talked to Phil, I realized that I wasn't where I wanted to be, simply because I was taking short-cuts. Less time in the weight room.  Less effort during sprints.  Etc... If I want to achieve and be part of that next level, I know that short-cuts will not get me where I want to be."  Again, don't quote me. But this has been in my brain, shuffled around, for the last 15+ years.  But I remember reading it.

We all know that we can't judge an athlete's greatness as to what kind of person they are.  They could be not loyal to their spouses, alcoholics, sex addicts, aquitted rapists, etc... The list goes on.  We don't know what they battle in their lives.  But as someone who is trying to change things in my life, regarding healthy food choices and exercise, I find this awesome.  Matter of fact, the quote that I've opened up with, is stenciled on the wall of the fitness room, here at work.  You know the place.  I've spoken of it before.  The one with the dinosaur of a treadmill?  Yeah, no place to hold your water, or your mp3/phone/electronic device.  Also, the one that acts like a vehicle with a cruise"sometimes"control.  Speed up, slow down, speed up, slow down. 

Just heard from one of my younger brothers that still lives in Montucky, that he has spent some time with our aunt and uncle.  They stepped in quite a bit, along with some others on my mother's side of the family, one both of our parents were deceased.  But, both of them are obese. He says they look great!  That is huge.  A lot of people in my family are stubborn.  :)  If you will... a family trend. Not always a good thing. But it is what it is.  We all love each other, and I love my aunt and uncle. 

Turns out they went and saw a specialist about thier weight.  As a married couple.  Believe me, I know how stress effects your eating, skipping meals, not caring, not thinking, etc... Money effects all of that as well.  Heck, I know that my siblings and I probalby caused a bunch of that stress and things were not all honky-dory all of the time.  But the fact that they went in, seeked answers/help and realized they wanted different, that is awesome!  Checked out their body fat percentage.  Sounds like they set goals as well.  My brother says he noticed a difference in them.  I'll take it.  I hope they are feeling better.  I hope they are proud of themselves.  I'm proud of them.

So, put it all together, if you want change, take action. It doesn't matter who you are.  Whether you're Michael Jordan, Ryan Cowboy Ehmann the Coach, Nick, or an average couple from Montana, go get what you want.

Also this week, after a long week of cravings, hard workouts, doubt and health issues, I'm looking forward to change this next week.  A big week at that.  A minor surgery for our 10 month old little girl, which required us to move some things around on our schedule for work, as well, put into perspective what we're going to do about supporting each other to keep doing the strength conditioning daily and workouts at least 3x per week.  Plan ahead for food.  A big week!  Prepared some chicken to be able to take and go.

But I have to say it is stressful for groceries right now.  It feels like we're buying the same stuff over and over.  Plus, we're scraping the bottom of the barrell for our food.  Using stuff that we've had for a few months, which is good.  But I'm excited to get to a point to try some of the foods that Coach emailed me.  I'd love to see how 30 days would go, doing this.  But I'll take what I can get.  If I can see a differnce in foods that we eat every day... that is a phenominal improvement, for anyone.  Sugar is a huge thing.  It'll sneak up on you.  So, I can tell all of you that I have not had a regular soda since the beginning of this journey.  I can tell you that I have not skipped a meal since the beginning of this journey, but I have skipped a snack or two.  I can tell you that I've done my strength conditioning nearly every day, since I did not understand in the beginning. 

My wife also said something very important to me last night.  I had a treat.  I am not even a sweets guy. I am a sweet guy, yes, but not a sweets guy.  Cookies, sugary sweets, etc... not my bag.  I have stuff I like, but would prefer savory.  But, realizing that you should not rewards yourself wholely, with food.  How many people do that?  If you decide to have a snack, or something sweet, keep portions in mind.  You may like Doritos, for instance.  Yeah, have a few to curb your cravings and keep them few and far between.  Now, having a whole back once every couple of weeks, thinking, "It's not every other day, so every 2 weeks must be acceptable...", probably not a good idea.

This is just for me to put it out there, as if I'm talking to myself.  But, welcome to my mindset right now.  Sometimes I feel like it's a web browser wtih 46 tabs open. 

Great Job to my aunt and uncle!  Here's to moving forward onto a new week.  Piecing it all together.

9 comments:

  1. At our stage in our personal journey to be healthy we have faltered at our Nielsen household. I don't know why for sure but I do know most is stress lately. I applaud you for. Sticking with what you "should" do and not what you "want" to do especially when I know that having a sick baby and eventually leading to a surgery is more stressful than most other things and eating sometimes feels like it will help, however it doesn't in the end, it just makes you forget or soothe your woahs for a short while and then they slam back at you along with a few extra pounds. Keep going strong Nick! I need to jump back on that wagon and go again too. Emmett is headed for tubes and i have been so worn down from a sick baby who hasnt slept much that i let myself down by putting my healthy goals aside. But your proof that someone with stress can do it so here i go again. :-)

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    1. Can't change the past, just what you do next. We're here to support you. I didn't anticipate that this would take as much time as it has, re-educating myself with Coach's help. But I can tell you, time for sure goes quicker when you're not thinking about the unhealthy choices you're making, with food or whatever the poison is. Stress sucks. I should make that a bumper sticker. Or like the billboard I saw... "Fertilizer Happens" (Really, it said fertilizer). I thought that was funny. But still, a streak of choices starts with one. Either good or bad. So, you determine your own streak. I just emailed the Coach and told him, on my own doing, that when I finish this first 28 day challenge he set, I want to do it again, right away, so I can go back and do it the way I know I can. Fine-tune some things. Sorry to hear about Emmett. It sucks feeling helpless. Hopefully we'll have a couple of happier babies in the near future. :) Thanks for commenting.

      Believe in yourself Nicole. I can't tell you how tough it gets on me to try and forget all of the doubt I've had. A lot of it is mind conditioning too. But we can only do it one day at a time.

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  2. Wait a minute I thought it was cowboy nick? Dont you mean, "You dont get nuthin that you dont earn!" haha

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  3. Nick and family ... amazing job ... sorry I have not been posting much to your blog but life is 1,000 mph with Daymond John. Keep it up, sounds like you are learning so much and if you keep focusing on 1 day at a time and that your creating a new life and not just trying to lose a few inches the road ahead will become much more clear. Feel free to post a comment about your learning or journey on my Facebook Ryan Cowboy Ehmann as it will help others. I think the membership website has a community center or discussion center that I would like to connect all the members.

    Keep going buddy....How many followers do you have? Oh did you chat with a gentlemen who is starting out at 500 pounds?

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    1. Yes, he has reached out to me. In hind-sight, I want to do the 28 day challenge again, now that I have a better understanding of what is going to happen, the emails, videos, exercise, etc... I'm really excited to see it in action, full swing. I felt like this last 28 days has been a whirlwind. I am proud of myself though. Just to think that in the last 15 years I've done maybe 10 push ups, but in the last 28 days, to count how many I've done. That is really cool. I can't even put a number to it. Plus, instead of working out 3x a week, I'd like to challenge myself to do it every-other-day.

      I've shared my story with people at work who I've worked with for 3 years! But they didn't really know me. The support I've gotten from my family, my wife, my siblings and extended family... it's awesome. People have told me they enjoy my writing and my story telling. Other tell me they like to read it because I'm honest. If I felt like I could do better, I voiced it.

      Thanks again coach. The measuring, the workouts, the strength conditioning, I feel like I have such a better grasp on it now, that I want to go forth from here and do it again. I try not to lose the focus on one day at a time. Heck sometimes, I focus on one meal at a time.

      So here's to the journey.

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  4. What I like about your blog is your gut level honesty. Keep in mind that not only are you inspiring your family and friends but potentially hundreds of others that will read your blog at some point. Keep striving to be your best and don't beat yourself up when you are at your worst - tommorow is a new day!

    Cheers,
    Chris

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    1. Hey Chris,

      Happy to see you on here! Thanks for the comment. Man, I sure hope that people are getting inspired somehow. That is why I started the blog, but now that I'm into this about 30 days, I feel like it's a good way for me to write down how I'm feeling, then process it. After that, it helps me realize a few different things here or there, that I think could use more focus.

      Are you doing the program as well?

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  5. You are inspiring me and I bet others as well! Yes - I am doing the program as well and I really enjoy the heart rate training! I have done it in the past but with no real direction - to me Ryan makes it simple to educate us in how to get started. But it definitely has challenged me physically and emotionally. Although I think that is a good thing because once we conquer our fears and really understand who we are inside, we have a better chance of success. I believe you are on the right path Nick - just remember...a person who trys but fails is not a failure...it's the person who gives up! Stay strong and enjoy the journey...victory is just around the corner!

    Cheers,
    Chris

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    1. I agree that trying and failing is not the failure. It is the giving up. Regardless of the trying, finding out who you are can be tough. It is about the journey, am I right? Man, this has been more eye opening that I thought it would be. The heart rate training has been great. Difficult at times, physically, but still great. I am approaching about a month exactly. I am about to the point where I need to recalculate my resting heart rate. So we'll see. Right now, the cool thing is, I'm able to get in 3 workouts a week, as well, applying the reading of food labels, on regular food. Coach is all about, keep the regular food around, just read the labels. So, I'm going to gather my thoughts and probably blog again tonight. Keep up the training Chris! We'll be better for doing it brother.

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